A Glimpse
Fong in Her World
San Francisco
She's the friend who asks the question that makes the whole table lean in. Shows up with a home-cooked meal, a great playlist, and genuinely good taste in everything, including people. Her circle ranges from islands to cities, and none of them are gatekeeping her anymore.
Where Is He? Tell Us →Her Story
Fong grew up in Oregon, first-gen Chinese American. She landed at Westmont College in Santa Barbara, which she'll tell you was formative, and not just because of the weather.
Since then she's lived in Santa Barbara, Hawaii, and now San Francisco, building a career that spans fashion, nonprofit, and tech. She's currently an HR executive pursuing her MBA at Wharton, because why not keep growing?
She plays violin, does pilates, lifts weights, and is newly dabbling in golf and fully humbled by it — and always on the lookout for a Hyrox partner. Her home is essentially a third space, the kind of place people wander into for coffee or a charcuterie board and end up staying for hours. She travels like most people check their email, including a spontaneous trip to Wimbledon, as one does. You'll find her at Warriors games and very much keeping up with the F1 drama.
Bilingual, design-forward, and deeply curious — Fong is the kind of woman who makes the people around her better, simply by being herself.
A Glimpse
"She loves Jesus — and it shows in how she loves everyone else."
Fong's faith isn't background noise — it's the center of her life. She loves Jesus, and that love shapes the way she shows up: the generosity she extends, the intentionality she brings to relationships, and the grace she offers even when it isn't easy.
She is looking for a partner who shares that foundation — someone whose faith is not performative but personal, the kind that shows up in the small moments and the hard ones.
She gives her time freely, serves quietly, and genuinely believes the best in people. She's the first to pray for you and the last to leave when you need someone there.
Fong is not looking for perfection — she's looking for someone real. Someone who is grounded, driven, kind, and genuinely loves God. Here's what matters most to her:
What Her People Say
"Fong is the most intentional person I know. She listens in a way that makes you feel truly seen. Whoever gets her is incredibly lucky."
"She will show up for you at 11pm with food she made herself. She is loyal, hilarious, and has the best taste of anyone I've ever met."
"Fong is driven and accomplished, but what strikes you most is her heart. She gives generously, loves quietly, and never makes it about herself."
Where's My Husband?
If you know a man who fits the bill — or if you are that man — we'd genuinely love to hear from you. This is a real effort by people who love Fong deeply and want to see her with someone who deserves her.
Fill out the form and her trusted circle will be in touch. Every submission is handled with care, discretion, and warmth.
Wait — does Fong know about this?
She's in on it and considers it an upgrade from the apps and the "Where's My Husband" reels.
📍 Location is not a dealbreaker.
Fong is based in San Francisco, but for the right person, she is genuinely open to long distance. If he's wonderful, geography is just a detail.